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Have you ever got an answer to this question- ' Why are relationships so complicated?'. Many couples struggle to keep their relationship intact. Like they say Men are from Mars and Women from Venus, then who is from Earth? Animals? Men don't understand women and vice versa they are poles apart. In most cases, relationships takes extra effort and compromise to stay afloat. Expectations are the key factor for the downfall of a relation. You begin to start expecting from the person you love to behave in the best way which is not always possible. I know it is tough but how about not expecting anything and if you get anything you consider it as bonus! Men are naturally made with this phobia Commitment phobia. They take a lot of time to accept the relation and until then they will feel caged. Do women cage you? Why are men so afraid of marriage?
I don't deny the fact that women(esp. Indian women) are equally complicated. They have loads of restrictions and rules to be followed as they come from orthodox families. They are confused souls without clarity as they are pulled between their family and that one person who means the world to them.
However, the complication in a relation brings the fun factor and makes the journey justifiable
I wish I get an answer to this question :)
I don't deny the fact that women(esp. Indian women) are equally complicated. They have loads of restrictions and rules to be followed as they come from orthodox families. They are confused souls without clarity as they are pulled between their family and that one person who means the world to them.
However, the complication in a relation brings the fun factor and makes the journey justifiable
I wish I get an answer to this question :)
Heres a quote from the sci-fi series Kyle XY. Expectations may not be as bad as it seems...
ReplyDelete"There's a reason why people say we shouldn't expect too much,no one wants to see someone they care about end up disappointed.We instinctively act to protect our own from being hurt, and do what we can to make the right choices for people we love.But the reason we have expectations in the first place, is because we want to aim as high as we can. Because when you love someone, there's no limit to what you can accomplish."
The only natural instinct is survival of the species. Everything else including love and relationship is a human construct. Since it is not natural it won't be unconditional and there will be expectations. Expectations will precede heartbreak and hurt. Man is a weak animal...he will hurt.
ReplyDeleteThat is pretty good, ReadnRyte. Except, it does not explain why expectations naturally exist in parent-child relationships, which are as "survival-of-the-species" and (hopefully) loving as anything out there. The reality is that love, relationships, expectations and survival of the species are very complex issues, that cannot be explained fully in a short paragraph.
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