You can't always get what you want!

I have a very close friend who is going through hard times on the personal front. This post is dedicated to that special friend. I know it is easy to say and hard to do but we need to move on in life. It is really tough to forget that one person who you always dreamt to be with lifelong. But what if God has better things in store? Take a second out to think about this: in your life you search and search for the right person for you. If you break up with someone you get one step closer to that perfect person made just for you. You should look at moving on as getting closer to meeting the right one. I read this quote somewhere - 'If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it'. This makes so much of sense.

Recently, I also heard a story of a girl who ended her life as she didn’t get what she wanted. I was not able to sleep all night. This is so unfortunate that so many youngsters give up their lives because of heartbreaks. My only question- Is it really worthwhile to give up your life? I think we should be fighters and not cowards. Try and distract yourself from grief. Keep yourself as busy as you can. Streamline your potentials in things which interest you. Trust me you will overcome this phase. Like they say - 'Every exit is an entry somewhere'. Graduation is a small but significant attitude we should develop. It symbolizes the journey of life and represents the thought of moving on. You should love yourself the most. Your life is precious and you should value every bit of it. There’s no need to miss someone from your past. There’s a reason they didn’t make it to your future.

In life, we should learn how to let go many things. We should learn to let go of situations, things, memories and people. It is difficult but not impossible. Letting go does not mean quitting, it means accepting the fact that there are things that cannot be.